Thanks for all the wonderful advice everyone. I will definitely be using a lot of it!
For leveling I found the pally bot really helpful, but once we were both geared from icewell, I found our heals were lacking, especially mine. I did a LDoN rescue task with him and it was a very harrowing experience: almost no single pulls, and died at least 3 times. I did win, though, with about 5 mins to spare. This is when I realized that pally bot pacify is not working.
Having finished up most of my melee dps aa's while doing icewell/FG, I decided to give LDON a shot with a cleric bot, so I could pacify pull. I have done 4 total now, 3 with the cleric. The pacify pulling made it a breeze for me, and with the bazaar weapons I bought, I barely bando in my earthcaller for trash anymore. LDoN is a great place for me to gain aa's and some gem drops while it not seeming too much like a grind. And now that I'm putting pretty much all my aa's into my defensives, these will continue to get easier as time goes by. I even did a boss mission last night and was surprised that even at a yellow con, he was not much of a challenge.
I figure when my defensive aa's are full and I have a few pieces of the LDoN gear I will switch to a shammy bot. At that point I should be able to take on the normal LDoNs without having to single pull.
Things I am doing between LDoNs: Headhunter Tasks in Sebilis and Nagafen's Lair, farming CT and FG for blacksmithing and tailoring ingredients, sitting in the bazaar collecting afk points
