Hi I am said wife

It seems that this only occurs in instanced zones when there is a "longer" fight...typical boss fight. The only exception is three crashes earlier today in THF where we both crashed seemingly when our bard started twisting... As mentioned, there were zero problems in Western Wastes; we were there over an hour and killed about 10 or so of the dragons.
A typical scenario before we crash: Tank goes in, heals/hots, nukes...the usual

Then about 1 min into the fight we start to get the lag-out kind of link death where everything on screen stops, no spells can be cast, etc. At this point we have to force-close the clients or wait forever for a "You have been disconnected" message.
Everything was fine about 3 days ago; we have both updated our spell files, have an up to date install, etc. We're not using any UF commands that we are aware of anyway.
Thanks
