It is the shield I have

And I am pretty much 100% defensively minded. DPS is a concern, but it's only in the back of my mind. I have a guild who can DPS for me

I just want to smack things and live. That involves me taking and holding aggro, while mitigating/out-lifetapping as much damage as possible while the lemmings do their work to kill the target

I am indeed having trouble holding aggro, spamming my single target hate, my t8 AE hate, and the other AE hate spell, along with clicking legs.
I like the aug idea because of the powerful lifetap (should crit for about 6k+ with my foci and AAs

) and the extra anger generation. Not to mention it's a lot more affordable

The bane damage and whatever extra DPS it will supply is just a very minor positive from my viewpoint.
I'm sure my hate generation will multiply itself as I start evolving these HoH items/etc. But every little bit helps. Nothing more embarrassing than losing aggro when I'm working fairly hard to try and keep it.