Sup all! How's everyone doing? I miss THF and the wonderful virtual friends, folks, & GMs!
Just saw this thread and I thought I'd give my 2cents regarding the topic at hand.
LOTRO - great game, I played this for about 6 months back in 2008-09 (?), before Mines of Moria (the first expansion). It is definitely not a WOW clone, so if you think it is... clearly you haven't played it (in length) yet. Let me tell you this though, it's got the best graphics compared to any MMO out there (and I tried a lot, including Rift BETA). I recently tried it out since can still login using my original account... and I just upgraded my gaming PC to dual 460GTX cards in SLI. DirectX11 is pure awesomeness in LOTRO, and try playing it using Nvidia's 3D surround (look for samples on youtube), you'll need 3 monitors... I'm blown away. Overall, I'd give it an 8/10 (WOW for me was 9/10 before the first expac, but community is 1/10 nowadays LOL). Great community however, not as good as THF, but something close

EQ2-extended - this is what I'm playing right now. I wanted to come out of THF retirement a few weeks ago, but since I've forgotten my login password on my toons, and got frustrated because eqemu doesn't give you a tool to reset it (AFAIK), I decided to try EQ2 F2P since it's F2P and I can box my usual crew without having to pay for multiple accounts (my wife doesn't like it when she sees questionable items on our credit card statements). I'm now in level 30, and boxing 5 toons (still playing casually, more so than before due to RL responsibilities). I have to admit am having a blast, and I play with an RL friend (who I tried to get into THF at one point, but he just couldn't dig the EQ graphics). Overall, I'd rate this game 8/10 and the community is pretty good too, considering I'm on a F2P server (freeport).
Lillu, when are you guys making an EQ2 version of THF? hehe
I'll probably be back playing in THF once I grow tired of EQ2 and figure out how to reset my toon's login passwords LOL.